*by Bill Waterston
Friday, December 19, 2008
Comic strips just aren't the same without him...
In the spirit of the season, enjoy these works of art by our favorite comic strip 6-year-old Calvin*.
*by Bill Waterston
*by Bill Waterston
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Meowy Christmas
Don't forget the animals this season - visit this website to give free food to homeless animals living in shelters across the country. A simple click goes a long way. Even better, add it to your Favorites list so you can click everyday.
The animals thank you.
The animals thank you.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
These are a few of my favorite things
This is the first installment in a series of things I love, can't live without, have stumbled across and found interesting...
Sukie sticky notes
I found these at the MoMA store this past weekend. I love all office supplies, and these are particularly charming. Plus, there's an owl. And I love owls. Would make a great stocking stuffer or teacher gift.
Sukie sticky notes
I found these at the MoMA store this past weekend. I love all office supplies, and these are particularly charming. Plus, there's an owl. And I love owls. Would make a great stocking stuffer or teacher gift.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Happy, Merry
I'm trying my hardest to get into the holiday spirit this year, but it's been tough. This past weekend's trip to NYC helped a bit - it was very cold, snowed a bit, and I finally got to see the tree at Rockefeller Center in person.So on the Christmas note, here's my very favorite song of the season, by Sarah McLachlan.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Vote for the North Texas Food Bank!
Chicken of the Sea is having a "jingle jam" to find its new theme song. Exciting, right? That's not the reason I'm posting, though I do love me some sea chicken. Dallas' own Landon Austin has written a jingle, and if he wins, not only does he get a trip to Hollywood, but the North Texas Food Bank will receive $100,000 worth of food from Chicken of the Sea.Click here to vote for Landon. You can vote up to three times a day until December 9 - next Tuesday. You don't even have to watch it three times to be able to vote.
Vote early, vote often, vote for the North Texas Food Bank - they need your help.
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Blue and White
"I've said this before, and I'm dead serious. The world would be a better place if everybody went to Duke. People that go to Duke are just smarter and better than everybody else. And that's why I'm bringing Shane Battier on…..From now on I'm only allowing people who went to Duke on my radio show to talk NBA. They're smarter, they're better, they're more decent, and they got hosed in that lacrosse thing….I'm pro-Duke University….The world is a better place if everybody went to Duke….What's the downside to Duke? What is one criticism of Duke? There's not even a criticism of Duke. They're good-looking, they wear nice clothes, they have nice parents, smell good, get good grades, benefit the society. Plus, they have to make up for all of North Carolina's mistakes."
~ Colin Cowherd, ESPN radio
(thanks to Kristy for posting this on her fb page)
~ Colin Cowherd, ESPN radio
(thanks to Kristy for posting this on her fb page)
Monday, November 24, 2008
It's not a trick...it's an illusion!
This is the total opposite of a douche-chill...the Arrested Development movie is a go! Best news I've heard all morning. According to Watch With Kristin:Reliable inside sources confirm to me that producers Mitch Hurwitz and Ron Howard have signed deals to do an Arrested movie with Imagine and Fox Searchlight.
Sources tell me exclusively that the major motion picture is budgeted at $15 million. (Translation: It will be awesome.)
"Yes, it's a go," an Arrested castmember who asked not to be named tells me. "We're all very excited. And it will happen with or without the holdout."
Wait a minute...The holdout? Yes, I'm also told exclusively by multiple sources that one of the show's original castmembers has not signed on to the movie...
"Yeah, [he or she] might not do it," an actor says of this costar. "However, I do know that we will do the project with or without [him or her]."
Guesses?
The good news is that aside from this actor (who, sorry, cannot be named), I'm told that all of the other main castmembers have committed to be a part of the big-screen project. And, yes, the show will go on.
So just to make sure it sinks in here: Arrested Development is coming back. For real. On the big screen. As a major motion picture.
Doesn't that make you fans so happy you just want to hug your "anal-rapist"? (Meaning Tobias Fünke, aka David Cross, aka the show's resident analyst/therapist, naturally.)
OK, maybe when this "holdout" realizes s/he's being a douche-chill, s/he will sign on asap. Let's hope so, because this is gonna be awesome. Can't wait to catch up with my very favorite dysfunctionally hilarious family!
UPDATE: Rumor has it that George Michael (Michael Cera) is the holdout. BOO!
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Abstinence Only Education Teaches Harmful Gender Stereotypes
Did you know? Many abstinence-only sex education programs teach male and female stereotypes as scientific fact.
These programs reinforce the belief that girls should be seen more than heard and should rely on boys to solve problems. They also teach that boys are driven by hormones – while girls must be responsible for resisting sexual advances.
Gender-stereotyped messages in schools put pressure on young people to conform and research indicates this can cause harm to their psychological well-being.
The following are examples of abstinence-only education programs that reinforce gender stereotypes:
Puberty "is when girls need to start acting as well-mannered ladies, instead of uncontrolled children, since they are physically capable of having a child and need to protect this potential gift by respecting the power to help give life to a child." -Sex Respect Student Workbook, p. 10
"Generally, guys are able to focus better on one activity at a time and may not connect feelings with actions. Girls access both sides of the brain at once, so they often experience feelings and emotions as part of every situation." -Choosing the Best Life, Leaders Guide, p. 7
"Girls need to be aware they may be able to tell when a kiss is leading to something else. The girl may need to put the brakes on first in order to help the boy." -Reasonable Reasons to Wait, Student Workbook, p. 96
"One thing that sex education and the media fail to communicate is the power of sex. Spies, who are trained not to give away government secrets, even lose their sensibilities and give in to the power of sex, often because of what a woman is wearing." -WAIT Training, Workshop Manual, p. 86
Basically, guys can't control themselves, so girls have to be extra careful not to tempt them. It's amazing to me that women are given so much moral responsibility in some arenas, like not being seductresses, and yet we're denied that same moral authority when it comes to making very personal, sometimes difficult decisions about our own bodies, like whether to have an abortion.
These stereotypes are insulting to girls and boys alike. Yeah, I know teenage boys think about sex a lot. Guess what? So do teenage girls. And guess what else - they can also be smart and make really good decisions about their sexuality when given the proper tools - like education - to do so.
For more information about the harmful effects of abstinence-only education and gender role stereotypes, check out "Sex, Lies and Stereotypes: How Abstinence-Only Programs Harm Women and Girls" from Legal Momentum.
(Thanks to PPNT for this info.)
These programs reinforce the belief that girls should be seen more than heard and should rely on boys to solve problems. They also teach that boys are driven by hormones – while girls must be responsible for resisting sexual advances.
Gender-stereotyped messages in schools put pressure on young people to conform and research indicates this can cause harm to their psychological well-being.
The following are examples of abstinence-only education programs that reinforce gender stereotypes:
Puberty "is when girls need to start acting as well-mannered ladies, instead of uncontrolled children, since they are physically capable of having a child and need to protect this potential gift by respecting the power to help give life to a child." -Sex Respect Student Workbook, p. 10
"Generally, guys are able to focus better on one activity at a time and may not connect feelings with actions. Girls access both sides of the brain at once, so they often experience feelings and emotions as part of every situation." -Choosing the Best Life, Leaders Guide, p. 7
"Girls need to be aware they may be able to tell when a kiss is leading to something else. The girl may need to put the brakes on first in order to help the boy." -Reasonable Reasons to Wait, Student Workbook, p. 96
"One thing that sex education and the media fail to communicate is the power of sex. Spies, who are trained not to give away government secrets, even lose their sensibilities and give in to the power of sex, often because of what a woman is wearing." -WAIT Training, Workshop Manual, p. 86
Basically, guys can't control themselves, so girls have to be extra careful not to tempt them. It's amazing to me that women are given so much moral responsibility in some arenas, like not being seductresses, and yet we're denied that same moral authority when it comes to making very personal, sometimes difficult decisions about our own bodies, like whether to have an abortion.
These stereotypes are insulting to girls and boys alike. Yeah, I know teenage boys think about sex a lot. Guess what? So do teenage girls. And guess what else - they can also be smart and make really good decisions about their sexuality when given the proper tools - like education - to do so.
For more information about the harmful effects of abstinence-only education and gender role stereotypes, check out "Sex, Lies and Stereotypes: How Abstinence-Only Programs Harm Women and Girls" from Legal Momentum.
(Thanks to PPNT for this info.)
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Op-Ed: Why is my life still up for a vote?
Candace Chellew-Hodge gives us her perspective on the gay marriage bans that passed in three states last Tuesday. Last week's happy victory was tarnished by these disciminatory, hateful propositions. Maybe someday equality for everyone will really mean equality for everyone.
"What I think saddens me the most, however, is that the charge to discriminate against other human beings is being led by people who profess to follow a man who included everyone—especially the outcast. Religious groups, especially the Mormon Church, with its history of sanctifying the marriages of one man and many wives, bankrolled the fight to pass California's amendment abomination. With their misguided and misinformed ideas of marriage, its ever-changing history, and who should be able to enjoy it, these religious leaders have dragged down the name of Jesus into the mud pit with them. Instead of hearing Jesus' call to care for "the least of these," they have made Jesus into a small-minded bigot and turned his name into a curse for gay and lesbian people instead of a blessing."
Read the complete op-ed here.
"What I think saddens me the most, however, is that the charge to discriminate against other human beings is being led by people who profess to follow a man who included everyone—especially the outcast. Religious groups, especially the Mormon Church, with its history of sanctifying the marriages of one man and many wives, bankrolled the fight to pass California's amendment abomination. With their misguided and misinformed ideas of marriage, its ever-changing history, and who should be able to enjoy it, these religious leaders have dragged down the name of Jesus into the mud pit with them. Instead of hearing Jesus' call to care for "the least of these," they have made Jesus into a small-minded bigot and turned his name into a curse for gay and lesbian people instead of a blessing."
Read the complete op-ed here.
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Monday, November 3, 2008
Get thee to the polls!
Starbucks is offering free coffee tomorrow to anyone who voted. You don't even have to tell them how you voted. So if you are one of the (silly) few who did not vote early - good luck. Lines are liable to be quite long. But at least you have free coffee to look forward to.
Monday, October 27, 2008
Employees wanted
As we were headed back to the office this afternoon - this gorgeous, chilly autumn afternoon that was not meant to be spent in an office building - the husband and I came up with a list of awesome jobs.
I was thinking that being a landscape designer would be fun, because you could be outdoors all day, surrounded by beauty, which would definitely up the happiness quotient.
He came up with sniper. Snipers, too, spend plenty of time outdoors, and get to exercise incredible physical and mental strength and precision.
We are different people, my husband and I. Yet somehow it works. And in three days, it will have been working for four years.
I was thinking that being a landscape designer would be fun, because you could be outdoors all day, surrounded by beauty, which would definitely up the happiness quotient.
He came up with sniper. Snipers, too, spend plenty of time outdoors, and get to exercise incredible physical and mental strength and precision.
We are different people, my husband and I. Yet somehow it works. And in three days, it will have been working for four years.
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Making a statement
The Family Place - a Dallas domestic violence shelter - has unveiled a new ad campaign that's meant to shock - and succeeds.
On ad shows a picture of a smiling little girl and reads: "One day my husband will kill me."
Another shows a little boy, also smiling, saying: "When I grow up, I will beat my wife."
The point of the campaign is to show the effects of family violence on its littlest victims - the kids. Children who grow up in abusive households are likely to repeat the behavior - either by abusing their own spouse, or becoming involved in an abusive relationship.
Executive Director Paige Flink's view is that "Children are greatly affected by family violence, even though people think it's a man and a woman fighting...Victims get blamed a lot. If you put an adult battered woman [on an ad], some people would blame her. But children are still seen as innocent."
The ads are provocative and some people are offended. Well, isn't that the point? Domestic violence should be offensive. While we are all disgusted by the idea of family violence, I think we have become immune to the traditional horrible images. I think these ads are very well done, and I hope they succeed in making some people think again about this issue. According to SMU professor Dan Howard, the ads are likely to appeal to a woman's concern for her children. "There are some women who will do more to protect their children than they will to protect themselves," he said.
On that note, Partners Card shopping begins tomorrow and runs through November 2 - 20% discounts at hundreds of retailers and restaurants all over the metroplex. Cards cost $60, and proceeds directly benefit the Family Place. Cards are available all over town, so go buy yours to support this great cause.
Here's the article from the DMN.
On ad shows a picture of a smiling little girl and reads: "One day my husband will kill me."
Another shows a little boy, also smiling, saying: "When I grow up, I will beat my wife."
The point of the campaign is to show the effects of family violence on its littlest victims - the kids. Children who grow up in abusive households are likely to repeat the behavior - either by abusing their own spouse, or becoming involved in an abusive relationship.
Executive Director Paige Flink's view is that "Children are greatly affected by family violence, even though people think it's a man and a woman fighting...Victims get blamed a lot. If you put an adult battered woman [on an ad], some people would blame her. But children are still seen as innocent."
The ads are provocative and some people are offended. Well, isn't that the point? Domestic violence should be offensive. While we are all disgusted by the idea of family violence, I think we have become immune to the traditional horrible images. I think these ads are very well done, and I hope they succeed in making some people think again about this issue. According to SMU professor Dan Howard, the ads are likely to appeal to a woman's concern for her children. "There are some women who will do more to protect their children than they will to protect themselves," he said.
On that note, Partners Card shopping begins tomorrow and runs through November 2 - 20% discounts at hundreds of retailers and restaurants all over the metroplex. Cards cost $60, and proceeds directly benefit the Family Place. Cards are available all over town, so go buy yours to support this great cause.
Here's the article from the DMN.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
That explains it...
The following piece is stolen directly from the always entertaining and educational blog In the Pink Texas. Basically, I'm screwed...
The Incredible Shrinking Woman
I think it’s fair to say that the race is all but over. Latest WSJ/NBC/Burka poll shows Obama ahead by 10 points. Which means, we can finally get back to the important issues such as caffeine-deflated breasts.
Apparently there’s a new scientific study out linking coffee intake to breast size. Why 15 different people (not counting Mr. PL) felt compelled to send me this story, I have no idea. (And if I send you all a link confirming the link between beer guzzling and penis shrinkage, you know, don’t take it personally.)
The researchers found that drinking just three cups of coffee a day can make women’s breasts shrink. They also discovered that working at Starbucks for over three months takes away all capacity to spell even the simplest of names.
The study was conducted through surveys of 300 women concerning bust measurements and how much coffee they drank in an average day. Three cups was enough to turn those mountains into molehills, with the effects increasing for every cup drunk. There’s actually A GENE which links breast size to coffee intake. Oh, sure, AS IF MY GENES WEREN’T BAD ENOUGH.
“Drinking coffee can have a major effect on breast size,” said researcher Helena Jernstroem. “Coffee-drinking women do not have to worry their breasts will shrink to nothing overnight. They will get smaller, but the breasts aren’t just going to disappear.”
Throughout my formative years, I drank gallons of Coke a day, mostly in the hopes of stunting my growth completely in order to remain a climber in cheerleading routines. Did that have anything to do with my, ahem, somewhat modest bustline? Well, let’s face it. There are enough big boobs to go around.
OMG!
The Incredible Shrinking Woman
I think it’s fair to say that the race is all but over. Latest WSJ/NBC/Burka poll shows Obama ahead by 10 points. Which means, we can finally get back to the important issues such as caffeine-deflated breasts.
Apparently there’s a new scientific study out linking coffee intake to breast size. Why 15 different people (not counting Mr. PL) felt compelled to send me this story, I have no idea. (And if I send you all a link confirming the link between beer guzzling and penis shrinkage, you know, don’t take it personally.)
The researchers found that drinking just three cups of coffee a day can make women’s breasts shrink. They also discovered that working at Starbucks for over three months takes away all capacity to spell even the simplest of names.
The study was conducted through surveys of 300 women concerning bust measurements and how much coffee they drank in an average day. Three cups was enough to turn those mountains into molehills, with the effects increasing for every cup drunk. There’s actually A GENE which links breast size to coffee intake. Oh, sure, AS IF MY GENES WEREN’T BAD ENOUGH.
“Drinking coffee can have a major effect on breast size,” said researcher Helena Jernstroem. “Coffee-drinking women do not have to worry their breasts will shrink to nothing overnight. They will get smaller, but the breasts aren’t just going to disappear.”
Throughout my formative years, I drank gallons of Coke a day, mostly in the hopes of stunting my growth completely in order to remain a climber in cheerleading routines. Did that have anything to do with my, ahem, somewhat modest bustline? Well, let’s face it. There are enough big boobs to go around.
OMG!
Monday, October 13, 2008
Monday cuteness
Friday, October 10, 2008
Bloody good
OK, now time for something a little lighter. You know, vampires.
Here's the new trailer for Twilight. I'm almost done with the first book and I have to admit that I'm looking forward to the movie.
Here's the new trailer for Twilight. I'm almost done with the first book and I have to admit that I'm looking forward to the movie.
Friday musings
Read this. It brought tears to my eyes.
No doubt we've all encountered homeless people in our daily lives. For me, the encounter usually causes incredible guilt on my part, and while my first instinct is to ignore them (and sometimes I do, to be honest), I also remind myself that they are human beings (in fact, I feel a little icky even saying "them" right now). Whatever circumstances in their lives have brought them to the point where they are living on the streets, whatever self-medicating they do to make that life a little more bearable - they are human, no better or worse than I.
So. I don't have any answers (well, I have some ideas...). But the economy is in the shitter, and you can bet it's gonna start affecting more and more folks; those who were previously living on the edge are gonna find themselves without many other options. In Dallas County, one in five - one in five - families with children lived in poverty in 2006. Why do some have so much and others so little? I do believe that the choices we make impact our lives beyond measure. But the truth is, some choices are already made for us, on the day we are born. It's not because of hard work that I am where I am today. I'm not saying I didn't, and don't, work hard. But I don't work any harder than someone who has a hell of a lot less than I do. Luck. The grace of God. Whatever you want to call it.
So. What's the point of all this. I don't know, really - I just started writing and this is where I ended up. But I do know that it's not ok. It's not ok that some people can afford the best cancer treatment available, and others can't. It's not ok that some kids have three healthy meals a day, and others barely have one. So many agencies work so hard to close the gap, equalize things a bit. Now those agencies are hurting, too. Things are bad, and may get worse.
This is probably too heavy for a Friday. I'm almost done, I'll just say two more things. One is a piece of advice/wisdom my father passed along to me many years ago, that I have held very close to me. Never be ashamed of what you have or what you don't have. I try to remember that when the guilt overwhelms me.
And here's a story about my husband - then fiance - that affirms to me over and over what a wonderful person he is, and what a good choice I made. I was in the bath on Christmas Eve several years ago, getting ready to go to our Christmas Eve dinner, when he came home and grabbed the big wool blanket off our bed. We were living downtown at the time, and there was a homeless guy who stationed himself at a nearby intersection; we saw him almost daily. My husband found out that someone had stolen this man's stuff, including his blanket. So Pierre came home, grabbed our blanket, and took it to this man. That's the kind of guy I'm married to, and that story gives me hope that things can be better. I will never, ever forget what he did.
So, back to the beginning: read this. And may we all err on the side of charity just a little bit more.
No doubt we've all encountered homeless people in our daily lives. For me, the encounter usually causes incredible guilt on my part, and while my first instinct is to ignore them (and sometimes I do, to be honest), I also remind myself that they are human beings (in fact, I feel a little icky even saying "them" right now). Whatever circumstances in their lives have brought them to the point where they are living on the streets, whatever self-medicating they do to make that life a little more bearable - they are human, no better or worse than I.
So. I don't have any answers (well, I have some ideas...). But the economy is in the shitter, and you can bet it's gonna start affecting more and more folks; those who were previously living on the edge are gonna find themselves without many other options. In Dallas County, one in five - one in five - families with children lived in poverty in 2006. Why do some have so much and others so little? I do believe that the choices we make impact our lives beyond measure. But the truth is, some choices are already made for us, on the day we are born. It's not because of hard work that I am where I am today. I'm not saying I didn't, and don't, work hard. But I don't work any harder than someone who has a hell of a lot less than I do. Luck. The grace of God. Whatever you want to call it.
So. What's the point of all this. I don't know, really - I just started writing and this is where I ended up. But I do know that it's not ok. It's not ok that some people can afford the best cancer treatment available, and others can't. It's not ok that some kids have three healthy meals a day, and others barely have one. So many agencies work so hard to close the gap, equalize things a bit. Now those agencies are hurting, too. Things are bad, and may get worse.
This is probably too heavy for a Friday. I'm almost done, I'll just say two more things. One is a piece of advice/wisdom my father passed along to me many years ago, that I have held very close to me. Never be ashamed of what you have or what you don't have. I try to remember that when the guilt overwhelms me.
And here's a story about my husband - then fiance - that affirms to me over and over what a wonderful person he is, and what a good choice I made. I was in the bath on Christmas Eve several years ago, getting ready to go to our Christmas Eve dinner, when he came home and grabbed the big wool blanket off our bed. We were living downtown at the time, and there was a homeless guy who stationed himself at a nearby intersection; we saw him almost daily. My husband found out that someone had stolen this man's stuff, including his blanket. So Pierre came home, grabbed our blanket, and took it to this man. That's the kind of guy I'm married to, and that story gives me hope that things can be better. I will never, ever forget what he did.
So, back to the beginning: read this. And may we all err on the side of charity just a little bit more.
Friday, October 3, 2008
Happy Friday!
We're off to Arkansas this weekend to visit my adorable brother-in-law. Apparently there's some big game this weekend? Of football? Something about Florida? Anyway, I've been instructed to wear red, and I'm hoping someone'll teach me how to holler like a pig. Cause that's what these crazy Arkansans do, you know.
So here's what the hubby and I are listening to right now. No doubt it will be played many times on the drive.
So here's what the hubby and I are listening to right now. No doubt it will be played many times on the drive.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Katy Does Japan
No, not this Katie...that Katy!
A reporter from a Japanese magazine came to Texas to do a story about the Lone Star going green. He did a feature on the Katy Trail, one of Dallas's finest parks.
Click here to see the story - it's a really good read, I promise...
Also - Katy Trail Days is coming up - Oct. 25 - Nov. 2. Activities include a chalk art competition, a pumpkin party, a pub crawl, and a dog trot - I'm already polishing Angus's walkin' shoes...
A reporter from a Japanese magazine came to Texas to do a story about the Lone Star going green. He did a feature on the Katy Trail, one of Dallas's finest parks.
Click here to see the story - it's a really good read, I promise...
Also - Katy Trail Days is coming up - Oct. 25 - Nov. 2. Activities include a chalk art competition, a pumpkin party, a pub crawl, and a dog trot - I'm already polishing Angus's walkin' shoes...
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Cocktailing for a Very Good Cause
WHAT: Cocktails for a Cause, benefitting Planned Parenthood of North Texas
WHEN: Tomorrow! Thursday, September 25, 6-8 p.m.
WHERE: Dallas Contemporary, 2801 Swiss Ave.
WHY: Because we
PPNT!!!
My cute husband and I co-chaired this event last year, and it was so much fun. This year's fabulous co-chairs are Flauren Bender and Jessica Epperson, and they have already exceeded last year's goals in raising money for this wonderful organization.
Tickets are $50 each and are available at the door. Raffle items include symphony and opera tickets, Stars and Mavs tickets, restaurant gift cards, and wine.
Hope to see you there!
Monday, September 22, 2008
Something to look forward to
In a few years, you may be looking for more than thread count when you're shopping for a new pillowcase or duvet cover.
"Sheets will be infused with various skin-softening moisturizers, and even caffeine to minimize cellulite," says Jeanine Recckio, a trend forecaster and beauty "futurologist." With every toss and turn, the ingredients will penetrate your skin, making your mornings a little smoother.
(as seen in the October issue of The Oprah Magazine)
Imagine the possibilities. Also, where can I get a job as a "futurologist?"
"Sheets will be infused with various skin-softening moisturizers, and even caffeine to minimize cellulite," says Jeanine Recckio, a trend forecaster and beauty "futurologist." With every toss and turn, the ingredients will penetrate your skin, making your mornings a little smoother.
(as seen in the October issue of The Oprah Magazine)
Imagine the possibilities. Also, where can I get a job as a "futurologist?"
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Yikes, Ike
Hurricane Ike may have come and gone, but its effects and devastation will be felt for many months to come. Check out these amazing photographs of Ike's wrath.
Here's a preview:
Here's a preview:
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
The stars at night...
A huge shout out to my friend the Asian Texan Jew, who has decided to make Texas her permanent home. Welcome, pardner! YEE HAW!
I'm baaack...
I have been informed by my beloved husband to work on my blog because - and I quote - "I’m tired of looking at the same damn thing every time I check it."
Honey, this is for you.
So, I have been the worst blog mama ever. I have abandoned you, C'est la vie, and I apologize. I wanted to blog, I truly did, but you know it goes when you've let something slide for so long, it just becomes harder and harder to get back into it. The pressure! Now I feel as if I must write something incredibly witty to recapture my dear readers - all 4 of you.
This has been one hell of a summer, really one hell of a year. In the past 5 months, we have decided to sell our house, put said house on the market, searched for another house, sold a house, bought a house, and moved. I could've just said, "we moved," but that just wouldn't have done it justice.
Getting a house ready to sell is a huge pain in the ass, dear readers. Add to that hassle the fact that my darling, beloved husband LEFT TOWN while we were getting it ready to show it (hey, you asked for this post). I never fully understood the stress of househunting til now, and I have a new appreciation and empathy for everyone out there who is trying to sell their home. It's a lot of physical work, and then a lot of fretting. We were lucky, though, and sold our place within a couple weeks of listing it. We were also fortunate to find another place that we absolutely fell in love with.
I know that people move everyday. I won't say that we worked harder than anyone else (though we did have an incredible amount of crap). But I will say that this was more than just a relocation; it was a reassessment of our life. One that I'm very thankful we made - it has lifted an emotional burden I hadn't even fully realized I was carrying. But coming to decisions like that isn't easy.
So here we are, a few months later, the move thankfully behind us, the sweltering summer days (apparently) just a memory, and ready to take on the next challenge in life, whatever that may be. I've been waiting for fall this year more so than any other time in my life. Gone are the days when I dreaded the end of summer. This fall, to me, has signified a new beginning, a renaissance if you will. To me, the cooler days of autumn, when the earth seems alive and breathing again after the oppressive, humid summer, have been my beacon. Just make it through the summer, and you can calm down in the fall, I told myself.
And you know what? I have. Our life is probably not all that less hectic now; in fact, with September comes the multitude of meetings and receptions that every organization starts up again after Labor Day. But I feel so much lighter, more settled, more energetic. We still (much to my husband's chagrin) have boxes to unpack, furniture to find or rearrange, pictures to hang...but we're getting there, and it feels great. We love our home. It feels more like home after one month than our previous house did at two years. We love our neighborhood, our neighbors, everything. I'm happy.
Lots of other things have happened this year. Life does, as they say, go on. Perhaps I'll delve into some other issues at a later date. For now, I will just say - I'm back.
Honey, this is for you.
So, I have been the worst blog mama ever. I have abandoned you, C'est la vie, and I apologize. I wanted to blog, I truly did, but you know it goes when you've let something slide for so long, it just becomes harder and harder to get back into it. The pressure! Now I feel as if I must write something incredibly witty to recapture my dear readers - all 4 of you.
This has been one hell of a summer, really one hell of a year. In the past 5 months, we have decided to sell our house, put said house on the market, searched for another house, sold a house, bought a house, and moved. I could've just said, "we moved," but that just wouldn't have done it justice.
Getting a house ready to sell is a huge pain in the ass, dear readers. Add to that hassle the fact that my darling, beloved husband LEFT TOWN while we were getting it ready to show it (hey, you asked for this post). I never fully understood the stress of househunting til now, and I have a new appreciation and empathy for everyone out there who is trying to sell their home. It's a lot of physical work, and then a lot of fretting. We were lucky, though, and sold our place within a couple weeks of listing it. We were also fortunate to find another place that we absolutely fell in love with.
I know that people move everyday. I won't say that we worked harder than anyone else (though we did have an incredible amount of crap). But I will say that this was more than just a relocation; it was a reassessment of our life. One that I'm very thankful we made - it has lifted an emotional burden I hadn't even fully realized I was carrying. But coming to decisions like that isn't easy.
So here we are, a few months later, the move thankfully behind us, the sweltering summer days (apparently) just a memory, and ready to take on the next challenge in life, whatever that may be. I've been waiting for fall this year more so than any other time in my life. Gone are the days when I dreaded the end of summer. This fall, to me, has signified a new beginning, a renaissance if you will. To me, the cooler days of autumn, when the earth seems alive and breathing again after the oppressive, humid summer, have been my beacon. Just make it through the summer, and you can calm down in the fall, I told myself.
And you know what? I have. Our life is probably not all that less hectic now; in fact, with September comes the multitude of meetings and receptions that every organization starts up again after Labor Day. But I feel so much lighter, more settled, more energetic. We still (much to my husband's chagrin) have boxes to unpack, furniture to find or rearrange, pictures to hang...but we're getting there, and it feels great. We love our home. It feels more like home after one month than our previous house did at two years. We love our neighborhood, our neighbors, everything. I'm happy.
Lots of other things have happened this year. Life does, as they say, go on. Perhaps I'll delve into some other issues at a later date. For now, I will just say - I'm back.
Friday, July 18, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
Yay books!
Breaking news from fellow blogger and book nerd Risa:
Dallas - well, the metroplex - is about to get a new independent bookstore. Legacy Books, located in The Shops at Legacy in Plano, will be the largest independent bookstore built in the US in years - 24,000 sf of book-reading fun.
"All you hear about is independent bookstores going under," said Teri Tanner, managing partner of Legacy Books. "Well, we are opening one."
Ms. Tanner – a Tyler native whose retail experience includes both big nationwide book chains – was working with Borders a few years ago when it considered a location at the Shops at Legacy.
Borders ultimately decided not to do the deal, but Ms. Tanner couldn't get the site out of her mind.
"This is a great niche location in Plano," she said. "The demographics are great, and this is a place where people like to hang out."
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Legacy Books plans to offer the expected magazines, books and coffee bar, plus an area for cooking demonstrations and a separate Wi-Fi bar.
The store, now under construction, will be done in a modern style designed by Dallas architect Morrison Seifert Murphy, which also did the new One Arts Plaza tower in downtown's Arts District.
The interior plans show an open space with floating staircases, bright-colored fixtures and large windows.
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"We're planning on having 100,000 titles," [Ms. Tanner] said.
Avin Mark Domnitz, chief executive of the American Booksellers Association, said while other independents are opening around the country, Legacy Books is the largest in memory.
It's set to open in "late summer." I'm thinking a fieldtrip will be in order. Here's the whole story.
Dallas - well, the metroplex - is about to get a new independent bookstore. Legacy Books, located in The Shops at Legacy in Plano, will be the largest independent bookstore built in the US in years - 24,000 sf of book-reading fun.
"All you hear about is independent bookstores going under," said Teri Tanner, managing partner of Legacy Books. "Well, we are opening one."
Ms. Tanner – a Tyler native whose retail experience includes both big nationwide book chains – was working with Borders a few years ago when it considered a location at the Shops at Legacy.
Borders ultimately decided not to do the deal, but Ms. Tanner couldn't get the site out of her mind.
"This is a great niche location in Plano," she said. "The demographics are great, and this is a place where people like to hang out."
****
Legacy Books plans to offer the expected magazines, books and coffee bar, plus an area for cooking demonstrations and a separate Wi-Fi bar.
The store, now under construction, will be done in a modern style designed by Dallas architect Morrison Seifert Murphy, which also did the new One Arts Plaza tower in downtown's Arts District.
The interior plans show an open space with floating staircases, bright-colored fixtures and large windows.
****
"We're planning on having 100,000 titles," [Ms. Tanner] said.
Avin Mark Domnitz, chief executive of the American Booksellers Association, said while other independents are opening around the country, Legacy Books is the largest in memory.
It's set to open in "late summer." I'm thinking a fieldtrip will be in order. Here's the whole story.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Born
I heard this song on a rerun of Bones a couple weeks ago, and can't get enough of it. The artist is Over the Rhine, the song is Born. I recommend the whole album, plus some. (click on the green link at the bottom to hear the whole song)
A while back I posted on the disappearance of honey bees. Here's up update of this most serious situation.
Guilty pleasures
So I was doing my usual morning routine of checking out the entertainment section of Huffington Post when I saw this headline: "Tori Spelling Reality Show a Surprise Ratings Hit." According to the article, Tori and Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood is a hit among women ages 18-49. Oh man, do I feel validated.
I don't watch reality TV. I've never seen The Bachelor, or American Idol, or Survivor, or any of those silly shows. But I have to admit that I am fascinated by Tori and Dean. I started watching when they moved to Fallbrook to open their B&B; I followed every second of her first pregnancy, and now her second; and I'm loving the whole house hunt they're doing now. Before this show I had very little regard for Tori Spelling, and thought I would watch the show much as one watches a train wreck. And now I have such affection for her! I mean, she may be Tori Spelling, but she's just like me! Ok, maybe not just like me, but she is much more normal that I had expected. She has her insecurities just like the rest of us. She struggles to be a good wife and mother. In short, she's human.
And it turns out I'm not alone. So there you go, I've admitted to one seriously guilty pleasure, and I feel pretty good.
I don't watch reality TV. I've never seen The Bachelor, or American Idol, or Survivor, or any of those silly shows. But I have to admit that I am fascinated by Tori and Dean. I started watching when they moved to Fallbrook to open their B&B; I followed every second of her first pregnancy, and now her second; and I'm loving the whole house hunt they're doing now. Before this show I had very little regard for Tori Spelling, and thought I would watch the show much as one watches a train wreck. And now I have such affection for her! I mean, she may be Tori Spelling, but she's just like me! Ok, maybe not just like me, but she is much more normal that I had expected. She has her insecurities just like the rest of us. She struggles to be a good wife and mother. In short, she's human.
And it turns out I'm not alone. So there you go, I've admitted to one seriously guilty pleasure, and I feel pretty good.
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
McDonald's: Helping Gays Eradicate Sand One Grain at a Time
Chris Kelly cracks me up.
There are billions and billions of reasons to hate McDonald's. They took the McRib away, for one, and that burns. (Sometimes I almost wish I'd never loved it at all.) There's at least one good reason to like McDonald's: They're being boycotted by the American Family Association.
What did McDonald's do to cross the AFA, its president, Donald Wildmon, and -- by extension -- Jesus (R-Nz.)? They donated $20,000 to the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. McDonald's' revenue runs about five billion dollars a quarter, so you can see their profound commitment to destroying the family through sodomy.
Read the rest here.
There are billions and billions of reasons to hate McDonald's. They took the McRib away, for one, and that burns. (Sometimes I almost wish I'd never loved it at all.) There's at least one good reason to like McDonald's: They're being boycotted by the American Family Association.
What did McDonald's do to cross the AFA, its president, Donald Wildmon, and -- by extension -- Jesus (R-Nz.)? They donated $20,000 to the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. McDonald's' revenue runs about five billion dollars a quarter, so you can see their profound commitment to destroying the family through sodomy.
Read the rest here.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Charlie Palmer
We had an amazing dinner last night - courtesy of my generous father-in-law - at the newly opened Charlie Palmer at the Joule Hotel downtown. Two thumbs way up.
The food was divine - I started with a decadent ricotta tortellini plate and had the pork chop for my main course. The sides of brussels sprouts and garlic-flavored mushrooms were perfect. My dining companions had a tomato salad (hold the salmonella) and scallops to start, and roasted chicken and bison steak for their entrees. We all loved our choices. All meals are served a la carte. The wine was, no surprise, absolutely wonderful (my father-in-law knows how to choose them!), and the wine list is electronic, presented on a menu-sized screen that you can scroll through.
The setting is equally wonderful. The decor is very different but quite interesting. The Joule Hotel is very, very cool, very swanky. The building was built in 1927 and the owner has carefully restored it. After dinner we got a tour of the hotel, including the pool, located on the 10th floor overlooking downtown Dallas. I could've spent all evening out there - it was so beautiful.
The hotel is Dallas's only true designer hotel, and it has partnered with Neiman Marcus, its next door neighboor. There is a button on the phones in all the rooms that dials directly to Neiman's. Every girl's dream.
Not all the rooms are finished yet, and they are still working on construction of the exclusive club on the lower level - members and hotel guests only. Very Dallas.
All in all, it was a great experience. We will definitely be going back for special occasions, and maybe even an overnight stay, and swim, in the hotel!
The food was divine - I started with a decadent ricotta tortellini plate and had the pork chop for my main course. The sides of brussels sprouts and garlic-flavored mushrooms were perfect. My dining companions had a tomato salad (hold the salmonella) and scallops to start, and roasted chicken and bison steak for their entrees. We all loved our choices. All meals are served a la carte. The wine was, no surprise, absolutely wonderful (my father-in-law knows how to choose them!), and the wine list is electronic, presented on a menu-sized screen that you can scroll through.
The setting is equally wonderful. The decor is very different but quite interesting. The Joule Hotel is very, very cool, very swanky. The building was built in 1927 and the owner has carefully restored it. After dinner we got a tour of the hotel, including the pool, located on the 10th floor overlooking downtown Dallas. I could've spent all evening out there - it was so beautiful.
The hotel is Dallas's only true designer hotel, and it has partnered with Neiman Marcus, its next door neighboor. There is a button on the phones in all the rooms that dials directly to Neiman's. Every girl's dream.
Not all the rooms are finished yet, and they are still working on construction of the exclusive club on the lower level - members and hotel guests only. Very Dallas.
All in all, it was a great experience. We will definitely be going back for special occasions, and maybe even an overnight stay, and swim, in the hotel!
The pool on the 10th floor
Charlie Palmer
The hotel lobby
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Adventure on!
My J41's finally arrived yesterday, and even though I only wore them for a few minutes before I had to change for dinner, they're already my new favorite shoes. They are super comfortable, super cute, and will be the perfect casual footwear for my summer travels.
Here are the cuties:
Mine are the "Aquarius" in tan/sky blue, but they have tons of different styles and colors. They're environmentally friendly, too - J41 products are made with 100% recycled and recyclable packaging, and all outsoles are constructed with partially recycled rubber.
I got mine at Piperlime.com, but you can find them on lots of different sites - just Google "J41 shoes." This style fits very true to size; the vegan style fit me a little smaller.
They're so great that my husband is upset they don't make this particular style in men's!
And no, they did not pay me to write this...
I will definitely be packing these for our trip to Portland!
Credit where credit is due! The fabulous Maggie introduced me to these; she has them too. And now so does my mom. C'mon, you know you want some too...
Here are the cuties:
Mine are the "Aquarius" in tan/sky blue, but they have tons of different styles and colors. They're environmentally friendly, too - J41 products are made with 100% recycled and recyclable packaging, and all outsoles are constructed with partially recycled rubber.
I got mine at Piperlime.com, but you can find them on lots of different sites - just Google "J41 shoes." This style fits very true to size; the vegan style fit me a little smaller.
They're so great that my husband is upset they don't make this particular style in men's!
And no, they did not pay me to write this...
I will definitely be packing these for our trip to Portland!
Credit where credit is due! The fabulous Maggie introduced me to these; she has them too. And now so does my mom. C'mon, you know you want some too...
Just call me Martha
This recipe was in yesterday's DMN, and it looks so yummy that I thought I'd share it with you.
Mediterranean Seven-Layer Dip from Devin Alexander
Here's a Mediterranean spin on Mexican-flavored seven layer dip that is served with tortillas. It's just as tasty, but much lighter. Three tablespoons of dip have only 41 calories and 2 grams of fat. Be sure to use garlic hummus with only about 3 grams of fat per 2-tablespoon serving.
1 cup garlic-flavored hummus
1/2 cup fat-free plain yogurt
1/4 teaspoon ground cumin
1/2 teaspoon finely chopped fresh mint
1 1/3 cups seeded and finely chopped cucumbers
1 1/3 cups seeded and finely chopped tomatoes
2 teaspoons finely chopped fresh parsley
1 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
1 teaspoon minced fresh garlic
Pinch salt
1/4 cup finely chopped red onion
3 ounces reduced-fat feta cheese, crumbled
2 tablespoons chopped kalamata olives (about 8 olives)
6 (about 6 ½-inch-diameter) whole-wheat pita circles, lightly toasted and cut into wedges
Spoon hummus into a 6-cup glass bowl, spreading evenly with a spatula to make one layer. Mix yogurt with cumin and mint in a small bowl; pour evenly over hummus and smooth with the back of a spoon to form a second layer. Sprinkle evenly with cucumbers. Mix tomatoes, parsley, lemon juice, garlic and salt in a medium bowl. Sprinkle tomato mixture over cucumbers, followed by red onion, feta and olives.
Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate 1 to 6 hours. Serve with 1/3 pita triangles for dipping. Makes about 31/2 cups dip, about 18 servings.
PER SERVING: Calories 97 Fat 3 g Sodium 270 mg Carbohydrates 15 g Protein 5 g
Enjoy!
Mediterranean Seven-Layer Dip from Devin Alexander
Here's a Mediterranean spin on Mexican-flavored seven layer dip that is served with tortillas. It's just as tasty, but much lighter. Three tablespoons of dip have only 41 calories and 2 grams of fat. Be sure to use garlic hummus with only about 3 grams of fat per 2-tablespoon serving.
1 cup garlic-flavored hummus
1/2 cup fat-free plain yogurt
1/4 teaspoon ground cumin
1/2 teaspoon finely chopped fresh mint
1 1/3 cups seeded and finely chopped cucumbers
1 1/3 cups seeded and finely chopped tomatoes
2 teaspoons finely chopped fresh parsley
1 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
1 teaspoon minced fresh garlic
Pinch salt
1/4 cup finely chopped red onion
3 ounces reduced-fat feta cheese, crumbled
2 tablespoons chopped kalamata olives (about 8 olives)
6 (about 6 ½-inch-diameter) whole-wheat pita circles, lightly toasted and cut into wedges
Spoon hummus into a 6-cup glass bowl, spreading evenly with a spatula to make one layer. Mix yogurt with cumin and mint in a small bowl; pour evenly over hummus and smooth with the back of a spoon to form a second layer. Sprinkle evenly with cucumbers. Mix tomatoes, parsley, lemon juice, garlic and salt in a medium bowl. Sprinkle tomato mixture over cucumbers, followed by red onion, feta and olives.
Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate 1 to 6 hours. Serve with 1/3 pita triangles for dipping. Makes about 31/2 cups dip, about 18 servings.
PER SERVING: Calories 97 Fat 3 g Sodium 270 mg Carbohydrates 15 g Protein 5 g
Enjoy!
Monday, June 30, 2008
Bee nice to the bees
By now we all know that domesticated honey bees are in trouble and disappearing fast. It's estimated that 1/3 of the human food supply depends on insect pollination, most of which is accomplished by bees, so they're pretty important if we want to keep eating honey, strawberries, pears, oh and wear clothes made of cotton - yep, bees pollinate cotton, too.Plenty magazine has somes tips about how we can help the bees. You don't have to go out and start your own hive, just follow these easy steps to make your lawn and garden more hospitable to the little guys. They'll thank you for it.
Let your lawn go: If you’re not too vain about the appearance of your lawn, leave a corner of it “undisturbed and untidy,” says Vaughan. Think tall grasses, piles of sticks, general horticultural chaos. The mess will invite mice to set up house, and when they leave, bees will move into the nice insulated little cavity-homes they’ve dug out.
Bee-tox: The first thing to do is to detox your lawn. Give your chem lawn type landscape service its walking papers. Pollinators are a fragile bunch, and many native bees nest in the ground, says Vaughan, so lawn company insecticides will really do them in. “Even organic services may use natural products like pyrethrins, which are labeled for organic use, but still kill pollinators,” says Vaughan. Think your modest little lawn isn’t big enough to make a difference? Think again. Urban gardens and backyards suck up even more insecticide than conventional farm land does.
Flower child: Think blossoms. Grow lots of different kinds of flowering plants on your property, so that at any given time from early spring right through to autumn there will be at least three or four species in bloom. Trees, shrubs, and wild flowers will all do just fine.
Bare all: Incorporate small areas of bare soil into your garden or lawn. Bees like to nest where there’s a little open space on the ground, and are more likely to move in and enjoy your prime real estate if they feel they’ve got room to breathe.
Tunnel vision: Some native bees nest not in the ground, but in hollowed out vertical structures, like tree trunks. Help these guys out by drilling narrow holes (5/16 inch or less) five inches down through blocks of wood, then setting the blocks out on your property. Home sweet home.
Let your lawn go: If you’re not too vain about the appearance of your lawn, leave a corner of it “undisturbed and untidy,” says Vaughan. Think tall grasses, piles of sticks, general horticultural chaos. The mess will invite mice to set up house, and when they leave, bees will move into the nice insulated little cavity-homes they’ve dug out.
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Way to go Home Depot!
Good news for those of you who like using CFL lightbulbs but don't like the hassle of figuring out how to properly dispose of them (you did know you can't just throw them in the trash, right?).
Home Depot has announced that they will start collecting spent, unbroken CFL bulbs in all of their stores. You simply bring your old bulb to the returns desk, and it will then "be managed responsibly by an environmental management company who will coordinate CFL packaging, transportation and recycling to maximize safety and ensure environmental compliance." And starting in September, each store will have a designated receptacle for the bulbs. You can even bring bulbs that you didn't buy at Home Depot.
So go ahead and switch your old lightbulbs for new energy-efficient ones, and let Home Depot take care of disposing of them when they die, which, fortunately, doesn't happen for a long time.
(If you accidentally break your CFL bulb, don't panic, but do follow these steps for cleaning it up.)
Home Depot has announced that they will start collecting spent, unbroken CFL bulbs in all of their stores. You simply bring your old bulb to the returns desk, and it will then "be managed responsibly by an environmental management company who will coordinate CFL packaging, transportation and recycling to maximize safety and ensure environmental compliance." And starting in September, each store will have a designated receptacle for the bulbs. You can even bring bulbs that you didn't buy at Home Depot.
So go ahead and switch your old lightbulbs for new energy-efficient ones, and let Home Depot take care of disposing of them when they die, which, fortunately, doesn't happen for a long time.
(If you accidentally break your CFL bulb, don't panic, but do follow these steps for cleaning it up.)
Friday, June 27, 2008
National HIV Testing Day
Today is National HIV Testing Day.
According to the CDC, about 1 million people in the U.S. are infected with HIV. A quarter of those people don’t know that they’re infected.
Friday, June 27 is National HIV Testing Day and across the country, thousands of HIV counseling and testing providers will participate. The first step in protecting yourself from HIV is being tested. Why wait?
All Planned Parenthood affiliates offer HIV testing; some sites offer it free. Click here for a full list of services Planned Parenthood provides, and here for clinic locations in the DFW area.
According to the CDC, about 1 million people in the U.S. are infected with HIV. A quarter of those people don’t know that they’re infected.
Friday, June 27 is National HIV Testing Day and across the country, thousands of HIV counseling and testing providers will participate. The first step in protecting yourself from HIV is being tested. Why wait?
All Planned Parenthood affiliates offer HIV testing; some sites offer it free. Click here for a full list of services Planned Parenthood provides, and here for clinic locations in the DFW area.
WTF mates?
This is an old one, but it never fails to entertain me.
Hope it entertains you, too.
Happy Friday.
Hope it entertains you, too.
Happy Friday.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
O! How I love you
On my guilty pleasures list is O, The Oprah Magazine. I picked one up at the airport a couple weeks ago and read it cover to cover.
Here's a piece by Amanda Robb entitled A Little Empathy, Please.
Here, too, is a lovely little piece about the difference between men and women.
Do enjoy.
Here's a piece by Amanda Robb entitled A Little Empathy, Please.
Here, too, is a lovely little piece about the difference between men and women.
Do enjoy.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
How bizarre
Gloucester, Mass. has made headlines lately because of some bizarre pact among several of its high school girls to become pregnant and raise their babies together. The high school principal was the one who broke the news of the pact, but now it appears that it may not be true - the principal is hazy on details, and one of the pregnant girls, Lindsey Oliver, has come forward to deny that there was a pact. She said most of the girls were already pregnant when they made a pact to help each other raise their kids and stay in school.
Whether or not there was a pact to get pregnant, this issue highlights a problem that the entire country faces. Texas has the highest rate of teen pregnancy and births in the country. Sadly, we also have the highest number of second births to teenagers. So glad we spend millions on abstinency-only education.
One quote from a Time article yesterday really struck me:
Some described the pregnant teens as having little parental supervision. "They could stay out all night if they wanted," says a classmate...
Certainly a lack of parental attention and involvement plays into the story. But then I was reminded of how Jamie Lynn Spears's mother reacted when she found out her 15-year-old daughter was pregnant. She was shocked, claiming that her daughter was always a "good girl" who was never late for curfew.
So it turns out that girls can get pregnant if their parents are paying attention, or not; at 2 a.m. or 2 p.m.; whether they're "good girls" or...you get the drift.
Clearly, the conversation isn't being had about safe sex, and that's the problem.
The 17-year-old Lindsey Oliver really gets it:
She said there's more of a problem with schools not providing contraceptives to teens.
"Well, I think that they sit there and they say that they want to make a difference and it's awful that all these kids are getting pregnant, but they don't want to do anything to help them. They won't put contraceptives in the nurse's office or anything and no kid wants to go into the store and buy them, or like, ask them mom to help them get birth control. Like, it's embarrassing. So, instead of, like, making them make the decision not to use any of them, they should be giving them out in the nurse's office so you can get it anonymously," Oliver said.
She said the argument that providing contraceptives encourages teens to have sex doesn't make sense.
"The kids are obviously having it anyway. There are 17 pregnant girls. I mean, they're not going to stop it by not giving them anything. They're only going to make matters worse," she said.
Out of the mouths of babes.
UPDATE: Check out The Rev. Debra Haffner's piece about this issue.
Whether or not there was a pact to get pregnant, this issue highlights a problem that the entire country faces. Texas has the highest rate of teen pregnancy and births in the country. Sadly, we also have the highest number of second births to teenagers. So glad we spend millions on abstinency-only education.
One quote from a Time article yesterday really struck me:
Some described the pregnant teens as having little parental supervision. "They could stay out all night if they wanted," says a classmate...
Certainly a lack of parental attention and involvement plays into the story. But then I was reminded of how Jamie Lynn Spears's mother reacted when she found out her 15-year-old daughter was pregnant. She was shocked, claiming that her daughter was always a "good girl" who was never late for curfew.
So it turns out that girls can get pregnant if their parents are paying attention, or not; at 2 a.m. or 2 p.m.; whether they're "good girls" or...you get the drift.
Clearly, the conversation isn't being had about safe sex, and that's the problem.
The 17-year-old Lindsey Oliver really gets it:
She said there's more of a problem with schools not providing contraceptives to teens.
"Well, I think that they sit there and they say that they want to make a difference and it's awful that all these kids are getting pregnant, but they don't want to do anything to help them. They won't put contraceptives in the nurse's office or anything and no kid wants to go into the store and buy them, or like, ask them mom to help them get birth control. Like, it's embarrassing. So, instead of, like, making them make the decision not to use any of them, they should be giving them out in the nurse's office so you can get it anonymously," Oliver said.
She said the argument that providing contraceptives encourages teens to have sex doesn't make sense.
"The kids are obviously having it anyway. There are 17 pregnant girls. I mean, they're not going to stop it by not giving them anything. They're only going to make matters worse," she said.
Out of the mouths of babes.
UPDATE: Check out The Rev. Debra Haffner's piece about this issue.
Monday, June 23, 2008
Let there be light!
Tonight, friends and supporters of the beautiful Katy Trail will gather at the Victory Overlook above Reverchon Park to ceremoniously flip the switch to light the Trail. Lights have been a part of the Katy Trail's master plan since its inception, and tonight we will see the first part of this project come to fruition. From the DMN:City officials and other supporters will gather at 8:15 p.m. near the trail's southern end for the lighting of a half-mile of trail – from American Airlines Center to near Reverchon Park.
The illumination will extend to Knox Street in another month or so, said Eric Van Steenburg, executive director of Friends of the Katy Trail.
The Friends of the Katy Trail, the nonprofit group that raises money to build and maintain the Trail (and of which I am a board member), has been raising funds to light the Trail piece by piece. The lights cost $50 per foot - so you can put your best foot forward for $50, jump in with both feet for $100, go the longest yard for $200, feel ten feet tall for $500, or go the whole nine yards for $1350. So far, we raised $60,000 towards the $100,000 needed to complete the lighting - but we still have $40,000 to go.
...after the group raises $40,000, the almost $800,000 project will be completed to Airline Road on the Dallas-Highland Park border. The metal halide lights will shine from dusk to 11 p.m. and 6 a.m. until sunrise.
Adding the lighting is just one of the many things the Friends does to keep the Trail safe.
The lights should improve security, said Dallas Deputy Police Chief Vince Golbeck, commander of the central patrol division. But despite the incidents, he said, the trail is safe. "We still recommend that people use common sense in running and cycling together," Chief Golbeck said. "And it's always a good idea to be aware of your surroundings."
The trail support group is also seeking volunteers to patrol the path. And location markers have been added to help emergency responders answer calls for help.
So, if you are one of the 15,000 people who use the Trail each week, your workout hours are about to get extended, allowing you to use the Trail on your own schedule, especially during the winter.
With the lighting, he said, the goal is to expand recreation opportunities and increase use of a trail that opened eight years ago along an abandoned Missouri-Kansas-Texas Railroad line north of downtown Dallas. The lighting "will allow people to use the trail on their schedule," Mr. Van Steenburg said. "Particularly in winter, it will extend their workout hours."
And more people along the way should help deter crime, he said. "It's a de facto crime watch."
If you love the Trail as much as I do - if you use it for your morning walk, your evening jog, to walk your pup, ride your bike, or just to sit and people watch - I hope you'll consider putting your best foot (or feet?) forward and help us finish the lights!
Friday, June 20, 2008
Happy Happiest Day of the Year
Did you wake up this morning feeling extraordinarily happy? According to GMA, today is the happiest day of the year. A scientific study - funded by an ice cream company (so take it with a scoop of salt, haha) - has given us a formula to determine the happiness factor:
Outdoor activity + (Nature x Social interaction) + Childood memories/Temperature + Holidays
And apparently today, the official first day of summer for the US, is the happiest day of the year. Plus, it's Friday, which automatically makes everyone happier, right?
On a related note, did you know that men who kiss their spouses before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who don't? No indication whether the same holds true for women who kiss their husbands, or their dogs, for that matter, but let's assume so.
Kisses make everyone happy.
Outdoor activity + (Nature x Social interaction) + Childood memories/Temperature + Holidays
And apparently today, the official first day of summer for the US, is the happiest day of the year. Plus, it's Friday, which automatically makes everyone happier, right?
On a related note, did you know that men who kiss their spouses before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who don't? No indication whether the same holds true for women who kiss their husbands, or their dogs, for that matter, but let's assume so.
Kisses make everyone happy.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Summer lovin'
Summer - and 100+ degree weather - has made it to Texas. Even though I no longer enjoy a three-month vacation during summer, I still love what the season means - summer reading, flip-flops with every outfit, and a feeling of being lighter, somehow. Hot, yes. Sweaty - most certainly. But undeniably lighter.
Real Simple has a piece about the Best Ways to Enjoy Summer. Here are some of my favs:
The Best Way to Wear a Sarong
Sam Saboura, style host of the Style Network’s Extreme Makeover, offers four ways to tie this versatile cover-up.
The halter. Fold the fabric into a triangle and place it beneath your shoulder blades. Crisscross the two ends over your bust and tie at the back of your neck.
The hip hugger. Fold the sarong into a triangle and wrap it around your midsection, high on the back and lower in front. Bring the two ends together to tie below your waist, creating a deep V in front.
The long skirt. Wear the sarong as a midcalf skirt, tying it on a diag-onal that slants down to one side of your hips.
The strapless dress. Wrap the cover-up around your torso and tie it into a strapless dress.
The Best Way to Fly Paper Airplanes (this takes me back to the days when my brother and I would make paper airplanes out of the bulletin during church services...)
If your origami aircraft tend to nose-dive, try these tips from aeronautical engineer Ken Blackburn, the world-record holder for keeping a single-sheet paper airplane in flight indoors (27.6 seconds).
Use copier paper. Paper should be strong enough to hold a shape and light enough to stay aloft. Avoid newsprint (too flimsy) and poster board (too heavy).
Choose a sound design. The ones you mastered as a kid still work (see above), or check out Blackburn’s ideas at http://www.paperplane.org/ .
Tweak the wings. “Take the back edge of the wings and bend them up between your fingertips a little bit,” says Blackburn. “This will hold up the nose.”
Throw evenly. Give the plane an easy and level throw and it will fly straight.
The Best Way to Skip Stones
The recent world record for stone skipping is 40 skips, but everyone has to begin somewhere.
Find smooth, flat stones. “The stone should fit in the space created between your pointer finger and thumb when making the A-OK sign,” says Jill Tipograph, director of the online summer-camp directory Everything Summer (http://www.everythingsummer.com/).
Pinch the stone between your thumb and middle finger and wrap your pointer around the top of the stone like a hook. Lift your arm up and back and toss the stone with a snapping motion.
“Aim to hit the water about 15 to 20 feet from the shoreline,” says Tipograph.
Toss the stone at a 20-degree angle for a greater chance of skipping multiple times.
Happy Summer!
Real Simple has a piece about the Best Ways to Enjoy Summer. Here are some of my favs:
The Best Way to Wear a Sarong
Sam Saboura, style host of the Style Network’s Extreme Makeover, offers four ways to tie this versatile cover-up.
The halter. Fold the fabric into a triangle and place it beneath your shoulder blades. Crisscross the two ends over your bust and tie at the back of your neck.
The hip hugger. Fold the sarong into a triangle and wrap it around your midsection, high on the back and lower in front. Bring the two ends together to tie below your waist, creating a deep V in front.
The long skirt. Wear the sarong as a midcalf skirt, tying it on a diag-onal that slants down to one side of your hips.
The strapless dress. Wrap the cover-up around your torso and tie it into a strapless dress.
The Best Way to Fly Paper Airplanes (this takes me back to the days when my brother and I would make paper airplanes out of the bulletin during church services...)
If your origami aircraft tend to nose-dive, try these tips from aeronautical engineer Ken Blackburn, the world-record holder for keeping a single-sheet paper airplane in flight indoors (27.6 seconds).
Use copier paper. Paper should be strong enough to hold a shape and light enough to stay aloft. Avoid newsprint (too flimsy) and poster board (too heavy).
Choose a sound design. The ones you mastered as a kid still work (see above), or check out Blackburn’s ideas at http://www.paperplane.org/ .
Tweak the wings. “Take the back edge of the wings and bend them up between your fingertips a little bit,” says Blackburn. “This will hold up the nose.”
Throw evenly. Give the plane an easy and level throw and it will fly straight.
The Best Way to Skip Stones
The recent world record for stone skipping is 40 skips, but everyone has to begin somewhere.
Find smooth, flat stones. “The stone should fit in the space created between your pointer finger and thumb when making the A-OK sign,” says Jill Tipograph, director of the online summer-camp directory Everything Summer (http://www.everythingsummer.com/).
Pinch the stone between your thumb and middle finger and wrap your pointer around the top of the stone like a hook. Lift your arm up and back and toss the stone with a snapping motion.
“Aim to hit the water about 15 to 20 feet from the shoreline,” says Tipograph.
Toss the stone at a 20-degree angle for a greater chance of skipping multiple times.
Happy Summer!
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Smoke gets in your eyes...and hair, and clothes, not to mention your lungs
Dallas is taking a positive step forward in keeping more public establishments smoke-free. I understand that lots of folks (read: smokers) are grumbling about not being able to exercise their freedom of...whatever, but I really have no sympathy for them.
From the DMN:
Smoking in Dallas may get harder if the city council has its way.
Members are considering a more widespread ban that would prevent smokers from lighting up in most public places.
Dallas already has laws in place prohibiting smoking in restaurants.
Although it's been discussed for years, it wasn't until recently, that council members say they have support to expand that ordinance to places that have been protected.
Currently, Dallas restricts smoking in public buildings, restaurants, bingo halls, and most work places.
But by August, three council members, including the mayor, say they hope to have language in place to expand the ban to include places that are currently exempt.
Those places include bars, taverns, pool halls and tobacco shops.
Right now, this is all discussion, as an amended ordinance has yet to be drawn up.
But a majority of council members appear to believe it's time to move forward.
If and when the City decides to expand it, the ban would bring Dallas in line with cities like Houston and Austin which have outlawed smoking in most public spots.
A spokesperson for the Greater Dallas Restaurant Association says a more extensive ban could really hurt businesses in the city.
Not because it takes away smoking but rather because the ban differs city to city and smokers would likely take their business to neighboring city that allows it.
Yeah, I really don't buy this argument. People aren't going to drive to another city every Friday and Saturday night just so they can light up while they drink. I, however, have chosen not to go to a particular bar because it's too smokey for my tastes. I doubt those places have suffered from my lack of patronage (but hey, you gotta take a stand sometimes!), and I seriously doubt enough people will decide to stay home and drink just so they can smoke while doing so.
It will be nice to come home from a bar and not have to shower immediately before going to bed.
From the DMN:
Smoking in Dallas may get harder if the city council has its way.
Members are considering a more widespread ban that would prevent smokers from lighting up in most public places.
Dallas already has laws in place prohibiting smoking in restaurants.
Although it's been discussed for years, it wasn't until recently, that council members say they have support to expand that ordinance to places that have been protected.
Currently, Dallas restricts smoking in public buildings, restaurants, bingo halls, and most work places.
But by August, three council members, including the mayor, say they hope to have language in place to expand the ban to include places that are currently exempt.
Those places include bars, taverns, pool halls and tobacco shops.
Right now, this is all discussion, as an amended ordinance has yet to be drawn up.
But a majority of council members appear to believe it's time to move forward.
If and when the City decides to expand it, the ban would bring Dallas in line with cities like Houston and Austin which have outlawed smoking in most public spots.
A spokesperson for the Greater Dallas Restaurant Association says a more extensive ban could really hurt businesses in the city.
Not because it takes away smoking but rather because the ban differs city to city and smokers would likely take their business to neighboring city that allows it.
Yeah, I really don't buy this argument. People aren't going to drive to another city every Friday and Saturday night just so they can light up while they drink. I, however, have chosen not to go to a particular bar because it's too smokey for my tastes. I doubt those places have suffered from my lack of patronage (but hey, you gotta take a stand sometimes!), and I seriously doubt enough people will decide to stay home and drink just so they can smoke while doing so.
It will be nice to come home from a bar and not have to shower immediately before going to bed.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Updates and Dad
This has been a whirlwind month here at C'est la vie. Just got back from several days in DC, where I attended the ACS conference. It was a fantastic conference - I learned a ton about Voter ID laws (and their seriously unfortunate consequences), about privacy rights, constitutional law (ok, that one was a little over my head), and got to meet and hear from the likes of Senator Patrick Leahy, Wade Henderson, Elena Kagan, Pam Karlan, John Podesta, Eric Holder, and many more of the most brilliant and interesting legal minds of our country. I love being in a room full of smart people. I keep hoping some will soak in.
Being in DC is always a blast for me. Having spent one of my most memorable and fun summers there in college, I always enjoy going back, and am struck by how beautiful the city is. Flying into DCA affords gorgeous views of monuments and the Potomac, and the city is just so vibrant and alive. I'm lucky that my work takes me there at least once a year, and that I have good friends to visit when I go. Dinners at Corduroy and Tosca were divine. The highlight was the specialty drink at Corduroy, a refreshing combination of Hendricks gin and fresh cucumber juice. Yum.
Prior to DC, the husband and I were in Salisbury, CT for his high school reunion. That weekend warrants its own blog post, so I'll write more about that later. Suffice it to say, we had a blast, and I'm still tired.
This week is blissfully quiet and will give us a much-needed chance to relax before heading off to the first of many wedding weekends this summer. First up: Aaron and Kayt in Omaha - our first visit to the Cornhusker State.
Wrapping up, we celebrated Father's Day in style last night at Strong's over burgers and fried jalapenos, with both dads and a grandfather. I feel so lucky to have such an incredible father, and I hope he knows how much I learn from him and love him. I also lucked out in the father-in-law and grandfather-in-law categories. I hope they all felt celebrated and loved, and know how indispensible they are to our lives.
I'll leave you with a couple quotations about dear old dad...
When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years. ~Mark Twain, "Old Times on the Mississippi," Atlantic Monthly, 1874
Never raise your hand to your kids. It leaves your groin unprotected. ~Red Buttons
Being in DC is always a blast for me. Having spent one of my most memorable and fun summers there in college, I always enjoy going back, and am struck by how beautiful the city is. Flying into DCA affords gorgeous views of monuments and the Potomac, and the city is just so vibrant and alive. I'm lucky that my work takes me there at least once a year, and that I have good friends to visit when I go. Dinners at Corduroy and Tosca were divine. The highlight was the specialty drink at Corduroy, a refreshing combination of Hendricks gin and fresh cucumber juice. Yum.
Prior to DC, the husband and I were in Salisbury, CT for his high school reunion. That weekend warrants its own blog post, so I'll write more about that later. Suffice it to say, we had a blast, and I'm still tired.
This week is blissfully quiet and will give us a much-needed chance to relax before heading off to the first of many wedding weekends this summer. First up: Aaron and Kayt in Omaha - our first visit to the Cornhusker State.
Wrapping up, we celebrated Father's Day in style last night at Strong's over burgers and fried jalapenos, with both dads and a grandfather. I feel so lucky to have such an incredible father, and I hope he knows how much I learn from him and love him. I also lucked out in the father-in-law and grandfather-in-law categories. I hope they all felt celebrated and loved, and know how indispensible they are to our lives.
I'll leave you with a couple quotations about dear old dad...
When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years. ~Mark Twain, "Old Times on the Mississippi," Atlantic Monthly, 1874
Never raise your hand to your kids. It leaves your groin unprotected. ~Red Buttons
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Wish I were there...
This weekend is the bachelorette party of the super fabulous Miss Laura Lindsey, and I, sadly, won't be there. Instead, I'm headed to DC for a conference. While I have no doubt that my conference will be fascinating, I do doubt that there will be copious amounts of alcohol involved, or bikini-clad bachelorettes frolicking in the sand...
So, Laura, I hope this will suffice - a blog post about how fabulous you are, how much I love you, and how excited I am that you're about to marry such a great guy. He's truly, truly lucky, and I can't wait to celebrate with y'all in just a few short weeks!
Laura and I met during rush her freshman year at Duke. I was a sophomore and had chosen to talk with her because she was from Texas and let's face it, we're just cool like that. Right away I knew that not only was this girl destined to be a Chi Omega, but my Lil Sis, too.
We had an amazing three years together at Duke - celebrating Tuesdays, fall break at Harvard, spring break in Padre, Myrtle Beach, Chi-O parties, 5-11/11-5!...the list goes on. But mostly we just found in one another a kindred spirit. We've stayed close since graduating, despite often living many states apart, and I couldn't be more thankful to have this girl in my life.
Laura was a beautiful bridesmaid in my wedding 3 years ago, and now I have the honor of being one of hers this summer. (Also, the dresses she chose for us? SO CUTE! They are bright apple green, and will look amazing against her ivory gown with bright summer flowers.) She is hands down the most mellow bride I've ever known, and I only hope I wasn't too Bridezilla for her by comparison.
She is marrying a truly super guy, someone who clearly knows how lucky he is to have this unique, incredible, passionate, brilliant, hilarious, beautiful, wonderful woman in his life. I'm so happy for both of them, because I know what a wonderful life they will have together. And they have an adorable dog.
Laura, I will miss being with you in Miami this weekend, so have a shot (or two) for me, and have an absolute blast. Don't do anything I wouldn't do. Actually, do lots that I wouldn't do, it's your weekend!
I love you tons.
So, Laura, I hope this will suffice - a blog post about how fabulous you are, how much I love you, and how excited I am that you're about to marry such a great guy. He's truly, truly lucky, and I can't wait to celebrate with y'all in just a few short weeks!
Laura and I met during rush her freshman year at Duke. I was a sophomore and had chosen to talk with her because she was from Texas and let's face it, we're just cool like that. Right away I knew that not only was this girl destined to be a Chi Omega, but my Lil Sis, too.
We had an amazing three years together at Duke - celebrating Tuesdays, fall break at Harvard, spring break in Padre, Myrtle Beach, Chi-O parties, 5-11/11-5!...the list goes on. But mostly we just found in one another a kindred spirit. We've stayed close since graduating, despite often living many states apart, and I couldn't be more thankful to have this girl in my life.
Laura was a beautiful bridesmaid in my wedding 3 years ago, and now I have the honor of being one of hers this summer. (Also, the dresses she chose for us? SO CUTE! They are bright apple green, and will look amazing against her ivory gown with bright summer flowers.) She is hands down the most mellow bride I've ever known, and I only hope I wasn't too Bridezilla for her by comparison.
She is marrying a truly super guy, someone who clearly knows how lucky he is to have this unique, incredible, passionate, brilliant, hilarious, beautiful, wonderful woman in his life. I'm so happy for both of them, because I know what a wonderful life they will have together. And they have an adorable dog.
Laura, I will miss being with you in Miami this weekend, so have a shot (or two) for me, and have an absolute blast. Don't do anything I wouldn't do. Actually, do lots that I wouldn't do, it's your weekend!
I love you tons.
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Smile like you mean it
Does it still count as my blog post if I just reference other blog posts? Hope so.
Real Simple's Life and Soul blog has a post about the importance of sounding happy, as in, when you pick up the phone and say hello, try to sound as if you really want to talk to the person.
Real Simple's Life and Soul blog has a post about the importance of sounding happy, as in, when you pick up the phone and say hello, try to sound as if you really want to talk to the person.
Although we feel like our actions reflect our feelings, in fact, our feelings are often shaped by our actions. By pushing myself to behave in a happy and friendly way, I’m more likely to feel happy and friendly.
Also, as described by the psychological phenomenon of emotional contagion, emotions are highly catching. Studies show that we unconsciously imitate emotions we see others convey, and so people spread their moods to others—whether good moods or bad moods. (Unfortunately, negative emotions are more contagious than positive emotions.)
So answering the phone with an “I’m happy to talk to you!” voice instead of a “You’re interrupting me!” voice gives other people a boost.
It makes a whole lot of sense, and it's definitely something I try to do. We've all been on the other end of an irritated Hello, or a bored Hello, or a why the hell are you calling me I've got more important things to do Hello.
Oh, and a note to that last person: one of the great things about phones - especially ones with caller ID - is that, guess what? You don't have to answer! If you're too busy to talk, then don't. You'll be irritated at the caller for wasting your time, when it's not their fault that they don't know How Important You Are. And if you're in the movie theatre - for love's sake, just let it go to voicemail.
Oh, and a note to that last person: one of the great things about phones - especially ones with caller ID - is that, guess what? You don't have to answer! If you're too busy to talk, then don't. You'll be irritated at the caller for wasting your time, when it's not their fault that they don't know How Important You Are. And if you're in the movie theatre - for love's sake, just let it go to voicemail.
So, the next time I call you, you'd better be happy to hear from me. I'll know you aren't reading my blog if you're not...
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Paper towel dilemma
I have to admit - as green as I like to think I am (and my husband is warming up to being), I hadn't even considered the possibility of living without paper towels. Sure, I use fewer than before, use dishtowels more often, but to give them up completely? Never crossed my mind.
Until I just read this post from re-nest.
So, what do you think - can we live without the quicker picker uppers?
Maybe it's worth a shot...
Until I just read this post from re-nest.
So, what do you think - can we live without the quicker picker uppers?
Maybe it's worth a shot...
Monday, June 9, 2008
Dance your cares away, worry's for another day
Remember Fraggle Rock? Remember Gobo, Wembley, Boober? Well, apparently the lovable puppets are coming back thanks to the Weinstein Co. and Lisa Henson, who are teaming up to give us a live-action Fraggle movie. It'll be a mix of puppets and humans.Here's the opening sequence from the original series. Just try not to smile...
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Formication
Jesus, Mary and Joseph this is the stuff my nightmares are made of. Apparently "crazy raspberry ants" (their actual name!) are invading Houston and cannot be killed.From the DMN:
"Voracious swarming ants that apparently arrived in Texas aboard a cargo ship are invading homes and yards across the Houston area.CRAZY RASBERRY ANTS
"The small, hairy, reddish-brown creatures are known by that name: "crazy," because they wander erratically instead of marching in lines, and "rasberry" after Tom Rasberry, an exterminator who battled them early on. They're formally known as "paratrenicha species near pubens."
SPREADING
"The ants, first spotted in Texas in 2002, have spread to five Houston-area counties – Harris, Brazoria, Galveston, Montgomery and Wharton. Scientists are not sure where the ants came from, but their cousins, commonly called crazy ants, are found in the Southeast and the Caribbean.
GOOD NEWS, BAD NEWS
"They eat fire ants, but they also like plants, feed on such beneficial insects as ladybugs and eat the hatchlings of the Attwater prairie chicken. They bite humans, though not with a stinger like fire ants.
ELECTRICAL DAMAGE
"They are attracted to electrical equipment. Scientists don't know why. The ants have ruined pumps, fouled computers and caused fire alarms to malfunction.
NO CONTROLS
"Exterminators say the ants – which are starting to emerge by the billions – appear to be resistant to over-the-counter ant killers.
RESEARCH
"The Texas Department of Agriculture is working with Texas A&M researchers and the EPA on how to stop the ants."
If these suckers make it to Dallas, I'm outta here.
Pinche ants.
*The guy in the photo is Tom Raspberry, the exterminator who first identified these ants as a problem and for whom they are named. I would like to have a chocolate of some sort named after me. Or a wine, that would be lovely.
(Photo from the Times Online, story by Chris Ayers)
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
A few introductions
My husband has requested that I clarify what I wrote in My Profile. I guess he's not into fivesomes.
So, the three men I share my bed with are: my husband (when's he nice), our black lab Angus, and our precocious cat Sam. The fat little girl is Sam's sister Abby. The layout of our bed is something like this: husband on left side, Angus at foot of bed in the middle, Sam just above Angus but still in between husband and me, and Abby on the outside of either husband or me (she jumps up on our headboard to cross over, lest she inadvertently touch Angus, in which case she's pretty sure the world will come to a sudden end), and finally, me.
This makes for a very crowded, very hot bed (75-lb labs are freaking furnaces), but I wouldn't have it any other way. Though it does require turning the AC down to about 66 degrees at night in order not to wake up as a puddle of Katie.
The aforementioned husband is the greatest guy I know. He's obsessively neat, is addicted to books, and can back his car into a parking spot better than anyone I know. He puts up with me, and I with him, and really, what else is marriage but the mutual putting up with one another? That, and I happen to adore him.
Angus is just about the greatest dog ever. Scratch that, he is the greatest dog ever. I've yet to meet a sweeter, more mellow lab, except of course when there's a ball! involved, or swimming! is an option, during which times he is still very sweet but not nearly so mellow.
Sam and Abby belonged to the husband initially, then they came to live with me, then once hubby and I started dating, they got both of us. Sam is the ultimate rapscallion, always under foot or trying to escape out the front door. Despite not having his front claws, he's pretty sure he can take any creature that comes his way, from the neighborhood tom cat who taunts him from the garden to the friendly mouse who hangs out outside our breakfast room window. He waits outside the shower door to lick up the water when we're done. He comes when he's called and we're pretty sure he thinks he's a dog.
Abby is scared of her own shadow in addition to the dog. However, we think she secretly loves Angus, as she likes to sniff him when she's sure he's completely asleep. She steals the dishtowels from the kitchen, the washcloths from the bathroom, and my underwear from the drying rack. She talks a lot and very loudly, and when she runs her belly waddles. Fat cats are the greatest.
Our household is often chaotic, but full of love, the carcases of de-stuffed dog toys, and the occasional hairball. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Wait 'til we have kids...
So, the three men I share my bed with are: my husband (when's he nice), our black lab Angus, and our precocious cat Sam. The fat little girl is Sam's sister Abby. The layout of our bed is something like this: husband on left side, Angus at foot of bed in the middle, Sam just above Angus but still in between husband and me, and Abby on the outside of either husband or me (she jumps up on our headboard to cross over, lest she inadvertently touch Angus, in which case she's pretty sure the world will come to a sudden end), and finally, me.
This makes for a very crowded, very hot bed (75-lb labs are freaking furnaces), but I wouldn't have it any other way. Though it does require turning the AC down to about 66 degrees at night in order not to wake up as a puddle of Katie.
The aforementioned husband is the greatest guy I know. He's obsessively neat, is addicted to books, and can back his car into a parking spot better than anyone I know. He puts up with me, and I with him, and really, what else is marriage but the mutual putting up with one another? That, and I happen to adore him.
Angus is just about the greatest dog ever. Scratch that, he is the greatest dog ever. I've yet to meet a sweeter, more mellow lab, except of course when there's a ball! involved, or swimming! is an option, during which times he is still very sweet but not nearly so mellow.
Sam and Abby belonged to the husband initially, then they came to live with me, then once hubby and I started dating, they got both of us. Sam is the ultimate rapscallion, always under foot or trying to escape out the front door. Despite not having his front claws, he's pretty sure he can take any creature that comes his way, from the neighborhood tom cat who taunts him from the garden to the friendly mouse who hangs out outside our breakfast room window. He waits outside the shower door to lick up the water when we're done. He comes when he's called and we're pretty sure he thinks he's a dog.
Abby is scared of her own shadow in addition to the dog. However, we think she secretly loves Angus, as she likes to sniff him when she's sure he's completely asleep. She steals the dishtowels from the kitchen, the washcloths from the bathroom, and my underwear from the drying rack. She talks a lot and very loudly, and when she runs her belly waddles. Fat cats are the greatest.
Our household is often chaotic, but full of love, the carcases of de-stuffed dog toys, and the occasional hairball. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Wait 'til we have kids...
Rotten Tomatoes
Apparently we're not supposed to eat tomatoes for the time being - an outbreak of salmonella in Texas and New Mexico may have spread to seven other states. Too bad, I was just beginning to like the little suckers.
The Dallas Morning News tells us that "raw tomatoes may have caused an ongoing outbreak of salmonella in Texas and New Mexico – including four cases in Dallas County.
"Investigators have yet to uncover the source of the tomatoes or what type of tomato has sickened people.
"Until those questions are answered, federal and local health officials in both states have recommended that infants, the elderly and anyone with an impaired immune system avoid eating Roma and red round tomatoes that are not grown at home or sold attached to the vine.
"'It would also be a good idea for others to avoid eating raw tomatoes until investigators discover a more specific source,' said Emily Palmer of the Texas Department of State Health Services."
Also check out this official warning from the FDA.
Does this mean I can't eat pizza, either? Or pico de gallo? Because seriously, there go my dinner options for like three nights a week...
UPDATE:
The husband asked how one gets salmonella. Here you go, love:
"Salmonella is usually transmitted to humans by eating foods contaminated with animal feces."
Bon apetit!
UPDATE II:
Apparently McDonald's has stopped serving sliced tomatoes. This is gettin' serious!
The Dallas Morning News tells us that "raw tomatoes may have caused an ongoing outbreak of salmonella in Texas and New Mexico – including four cases in Dallas County.
"Investigators have yet to uncover the source of the tomatoes or what type of tomato has sickened people.
"Until those questions are answered, federal and local health officials in both states have recommended that infants, the elderly and anyone with an impaired immune system avoid eating Roma and red round tomatoes that are not grown at home or sold attached to the vine.
"'It would also be a good idea for others to avoid eating raw tomatoes until investigators discover a more specific source,' said Emily Palmer of the Texas Department of State Health Services."
Also check out this official warning from the FDA.
Does this mean I can't eat pizza, either? Or pico de gallo? Because seriously, there go my dinner options for like three nights a week...
UPDATE:
The husband asked how one gets salmonella. Here you go, love:
"Salmonella is usually transmitted to humans by eating foods contaminated with animal feces."
Bon apetit!
UPDATE II:
Apparently McDonald's has stopped serving sliced tomatoes. This is gettin' serious!
Monday, June 2, 2008
Are you there Internet? It's me, Katie
I've thought about starting my own blog for a while now, and my husband (Hi, honey!) kept encouraging me to do so, but still, I hesitated. Would anyone care what I had to say? Would I be as witty on paper as I think I am in my head? What would I say in my very first post? But finally, I did it. If the Dems can at long last pick a nominee (Hi, Senator Obama!), I can finally sit down and write my first post.
So here I am (Hi, internet!), ready and posting...
P.S. Shout out to Risa, the first person to subscribe to my blog, even before I posted anything! Hope you won't be disappointed...
So here I am (Hi, internet!), ready and posting...
P.S. Shout out to Risa, the first person to subscribe to my blog, even before I posted anything! Hope you won't be disappointed...
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